Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Has Movement Finally Started!?!

Last week we started to hear grumbling that court dates were being set for some families at end of May.  All right we might actually be starting to get this show on the road for 2013.  Mind you these families they're working with are "roll over" families from last year's exit permits and had referrals in Nov/Dec 2011!! So seriously let's get the move on as we've now completed 4 months of this year with nothing.  And at that nothing has happened since the families that travelled last October.

So I reached out to my Social Worker and she said our agency was looking into these new developments and would need to get back to us once information was confirmed......so we wait....and I hang onto every word that is shared on the Facebook groups I belong to....

Finally, the news of movement was confirmed yesterday afternoon.  The Korean Ministry is about ready to accept the first batch of cases for 2013 to be reviewed and given exit permits!  Then they'll move onto the court process and face the trials and tribulations of the new judges.  This part of the process includes possibly an appearance in court...which may become our new Travel Call.  This first 2013 batch covers families with referrals from mid Dec 2011- Feb 2012...it's about time...but I'll still give it a BIG yippee!!  There will still be a few months for them to get through the entire process and many unknowns are still out there, but so excited for my friends that will be in this first batch.  Also crossing my fingers and toes that we'll make batch 2...whenever that's submitted.

This new special law on adoption that was passed last August has really put a new spin on the Korean adoption process...and I think we're all still spinning...families, kiddos, foster families, agencies, Ministry, and Court included!  Yes, at this time last year families were already traveling and the second batch was being submitted.  Yes, it is very sad that now we have to be excited about the darn courts finally getting their act together at 5 months into the year and families will start to travel in May. But I can't let myself dwell on what was (been there too long now) and how the process has worked in the past (or will work in the future) since this is a whole new ball game and we must celebrate every small victory for our children in coming home!   

May compassion and diligence be in the judges’ hearts and minds
May the hands of the judges work swiftly and fluidly  
May we see many children find their forever families and homes in 2013

Monday, April 15, 2013

19 Month Update

We were again fortunate enough to receive updated pictures last week and then a follow up today with a written update/progress report. He still dislikes baths : ( but oh so many other fun things going on!!! So glad to read that he is thriving in his foster home. It seems he really enjoys being there as the last few pics (including this months) have show him with his Foster Mother and they are both so happy. As well to have so many things marked off developmentally means so much to us that his foster family is providing a nurturing environment.

In this months pics he's sporting a few things we've sent previously including a red windbreaker, maroon sweatshirt, and yellow vest. I surely think he's warm enough! It's also sweet to see him playing with the plastic pop beads that were in his care package. I really hoped he'd enjoy these as they were shaped as cars and trains.

April 9, 2013
Weight: 24.25 lbs
Height: 32.28 inches








Care Package #15

Pulled together another nice package to send over to our little guy. Would much prefer to be packing my suitcases and taking myself over there but seems the old care package will have to do for the time being. Once I had all our stuff ready, it seemed I had a bit more room than expected so was able to stuff in blow up baseball and some yogurt bites! Also finally included a recordable picture album that was given to us by a friend. We went around the house with Benjamin's picture and took snap shots to show him his new house. I share a sampling of the album below.


  • 2 long sleeve shirts
  • Pair of jeans
  • Blow up baseball
  • 2 wooden toy cars
  • Wooden puzzle
  • Recordable picture album
  • Have You Seen My Duckling book (Korean)
  • Fruit strips
  • Yogurt bites
  • Chocolate cookies (for foster mother and father)
  • Candy chews (for big brother)
  • Dish towel (for foster mother)
  • Scrubber with duck handle (for foster mother)