Saturday, May 31, 2014

4 Months Together

End of May actually marks 4.5 months home!!

Finally a whole month with weather that allowed us to be outside in the warm sun, well except for a few rainy days. We took our first camping trip and of course this is when it rained and the ground was soggy so we packed up the next day and came home. Ah but no rain at home so we enjoyed a campfire and our first s'mores with the neighbors. We also took our second camping trip over memorial day weekend and the weather was fabulous! Again we shared our campfire and some s'mores with friends. Benjamin seems to enjoy going out in the camper and talks about the camper quite a bit now as well points out all the campers he sees while we're driving.  Not the best sleeper in there yet, though we didn't figure he'd enjoy the confines of the bunkhouse to himself just yet. So we've taken turned sleeping in the bunkhouse with him.  Oh I see the posession arrow is again pointing at Fred for the next trip : )

Benjamin continues to pick up tons of word and pieces them together for short 2, 3, 4 word sentences.  Many times he just jabbers away and we pick up bits and pieces of what he's trying to tell us...yes we can speak toddler now. Some of his new words/phrases include grandma, grandpa, grammy, pops, later, all right, pizza ready, happy cake, icky eye, dog hair, and whyyyyyy. All very important to the toddler vocabulary. He's almost got his name down, he calls himself "jamin." He also continues to understand more and more of what we're saying. And of course gets upset when he doesn't get the answer he had hoped for.  Its been a rough go of it at times this past month with whining and crying and getting him to use his words. We know he has the words, so use them please!!

Okay again a photo dump of some of my favorite pics from this month (excluding Mothers Day since it has it's own post).


















































Sunday, May 11, 2014

Mothers Day

Two years ago for Mothers Day we had just found out (a couple days prior) we were to be parents to the cutest little guy we'd ever laid eyes on.  Hugs go out to Benjamin's birth Mother on this day. I want her to know that her little guy has a home, a mommy, a daddy, and an extensive network of family and friends that love him so much and will be there for him forever and ever : )   

Last year we had hoped our little cutie would be home, but those wishes were quick to be laid to rest with major slow downs in the program. Hugs go out to Benjamin's Foster Mother for taking the time to love and teach him about being a kind, considerate and loving little boy. For being there when we were not and showing him what family is : )   

So alas we are are here again at Mothers Day and so very happy that Benjamin is finally home. His laugh and smile are infectious.  His chatter and sweet voice are music to my ears. His hugs, kisses and wanting to hold my hand just melts my heart. His transition to our family and ability to take on so much newness in such a short amount of time keeps me in awe.  

Friday his day care invited moms in for breakfast...that was a messy glazed donut treat. Then today was a fun day had by all though Fred had to work (sure he had more fun there).  Donuts, playing outside, train ride, lunch, more playing outside then inside then outside, DQ and early bed.  A jam packed day with no nap for Benjamin : ) 

Love you to pieces little man, thank you for making me a mommy : )  
To many more Mothers Days!




Thank you to my guys for the flowers

Making wrapping paper for Grandma's gift


"Throw Momma on the Train"








A yes DQ for dinner...no cooking for mommy
Asleep on the couch during Amazing Race